We can control our desires somehow but we can not control our dreams ie the un fulfilled desires.
To control desires means to leave what ever comes, we must tune our minds in particular directions. . Any negative thoughts, which distracts our mind is a hurdle in controlling our desires. We must tune our mind to optimistic way of thinking & bye pass negative desires. It doesn’t mean we must not dream. Without dreaming nothing is possible. Builders use architect to plan a building or house on paper and then proceeds. A scientist prepares a Project and dreams the plan to do experiment. There is no harm in dreaming our future and planning it. It is our First duty to handle and see family well beings. We must try our best to please our co travellers of life.
No need to control our dreams, but before and after every dream, We must tell our Mind that “It is because of you I am dreaming or It is you who will help me in achieving my dreams.’
Cutting desires does not mean that we would become indolent. This has far more deep rooted and spiritual meaning behind it. These principles say that you can resolve the issue at intellectual Level & you have started doing more introspection and become more thoughtful. We must remember that love is sign of trust and truth….knowledge is sign of wealth and success….and confidence is sign of will to get love and knowledge
& Primary necessities in human Life are ….
love for life love for living good life love for gaining knowledge in life
love is a skill which generates a feeling of truthfulness, respect & trust towards
self ie you get a feeling of a deeper connection within your self ; exactly like that you are with the other person.
Remember, We always do what we desire to do. If, we can control our strongest desires, We may be sacrificing our motivational drive. These are only Unfulfilled desires, which motivate us to achieve success. Unfulfilled desires not necessarily make us depressed or regret because most of the time we may know that we are not legitimate enough to get these desires fulfilled. However, we ardently nurture them with a hope that these desires may be fulfilled. Even, at times legitimate desires are also not getting fulfilled. This may be due to the lack of motivation and drive from our side.
Desire is a sense of longing or hoping —————
We all seem to be guided and driven to perform actions of seeking and using; primarily and essentially with the help of those wants, needs and requirements; and actions, reasons, objects and activities of some such supreme knowledge, superior intelligence, higher education, higher learning and higher nature of our own selves only; especially through the medium of our desires for worldly objects and activities; about which we usually find our selves in ignorance, lacking in knowledge, consciousness and awareness of self in self. We seek and use water; not merely for quenching the thirst of self; but also for gaining such satisfaction, pleasantness and happiness of self; from the action of quenching of thirst; which can help us to refresh our selves; reorient ourselves; re accept our selves; and refine our selves once again; for the purpose and reasons of continuing to gain opportunities of goodness, victory, glory and unfailing righteousness for helping us to live, work, act and perform; this time once again for the fulfilment of desires and demands of the mind of self only; as it did earlier; Since we are failingly continuing to gain; or doing unnecessary hard work; for finding and gaining new opportunities of the life of goodness, victory, glory and unfailing righteousness of self; for helping us to live, work, act and perform once again; especially for the fulfilment of desires of the mind of self only; as it did earlier; and instead find our selves demanding such opportunities of self from the world outside; it thus seems that the wants, needs and requirements; of the actions, reasons, objects and activities of the supreme knowledge, superior intelligence, higher education, higher learning and higher nature of our own selves only; as mentioned above; are being left unattended, uncared and unfulfilled by us.
Need is something you have to have to live but desires is sometime you don’t necessary need but would like to have and experience. like you need food but you desire success. You basically need each one in your existence
