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 History may be defined as collection of evidences, research based on facts & figures and presentation of  authentic information about past events. History is a strong medium to get connected with ancient roots.   Scholars who write about history are called Historians. As we all are aware that   India witnessed several invasions. Adequate justice could not be done to honor our heros  due to lack of interest by the invaders. Small contributions in the field of  History of Ancient India by historians during Colonial rule could not do justice to earlier Proud rulers of South North & West India & their successors. Ancient Indian History, therefore  became victim of history of religions by erstwhile historians. “ Truth of those dark times was not Truth, it was just someone’s version  to please their religious & political bosses.

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About the Author: Dr Mehta Vasishtha Dev Mohan

Dr Mehta Vasishtha Dev Mohan was an Indian scholar of the Pāli & Sanskrit languages. He was a dedicated scholar and an academician.  He was born  on 28 Sep 1917 in Village Jafarwal District Shekhupura.  & grew up in a middle-class hindu family. His father Mehta Gokul Chand Mohan, was a Senior officer and had served various kingdoms of  British India. He served Mandi & Sukait Kingdoms as Revenue Minister. During 1926 to 1927, there was a rebellion in a neighboring State namely “Sukait”. The British Government appointed him as Chief Administrator to  restore law & order.He was also considered for the post of Chief Executive of jammu & kashmir but he could not join due obvious reasons. He served   Bharatpur & kingdom also as a Senior  Officer. His mother Smt Durga Devi Mohan was a daughter of renowned Arya Samaj Missionary Mahashya Karmachand dutt of  Jaffarwal Duttan, now in Pakistan.

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About the Author:  Dr Lajja Devi Mohan

Dr Lajja Devi Mohan wife of Dr Mehta Vasishtha Dev mohan,  was born  on 17 Sep 1931 in Chuk No 468, Tehsil Samundri District layalpur ( Now in Pakistan)   & grew up in a middle-class Sikh family.  She was born and brought up “on nationalist fervour” as a daughter of veteran freedom fighter Giani Balwant Singh Dutt a Social Reformer.  She, therefore spent her childhood under the care of her Grand mother ( Maternal) Mrs Prem Devi Bali & Mama Raizada Mulkhraj Bali at Jammu, Who used to narrate her stories regarding sacrifices of Guru Teg Bahadur, Bhai Mati dass & Bhai Sati Dass, Sahibjades of Guru Gobind Singh, Bhagwan Ram Krishan & Hanuman & these stories left a deep impression & sense of proud in her mind.

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Consciousness by Alok Mohan
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Comments (47)

  • August 6, 2012 at 8:37 am |

    The value of a successfullife is measured by the no of lives it touches to serve the humanity…

    Success does not happen in isolation; it is most often a participatory and collective process. So share the good practices, ideas and new knowledge with your family, friends, team members and neighbors & all.
    As they say: “Success breeds Success.”

  • August 2, 2012 at 5:20 am |

    Namaste…Revisited
    When you look at the deeper meaning of Namaste (deeper than the normal “hello” and “goodbye”, it reminds you how nice the gesture truly is:

    In, Sanskrit “namah” means “bow, obeisance, reverential salutation, adoration” and “te” means “you”. A literal translation of namah te is thus “reverential salutation to you.” It is commonly accompanied by a slight bow made with the hands pressed together, palms touching, in front of the chest.

    In a religious context this word can be taken to mean any of these:

    The Spirit in me meets the same Spirit in you.
    I greet that place where you and I are one.
    I salute the Light of God in you.
    I bow to the divine in you.
    I recognize that within each of us is a place where Divinity dwells, and when we are in that place, we are One.
    My higher energy salutes your higher energy.

    In the end, the gesture recognizes the equality of all, and pays honor to the sacredness and interconnection of all, as well as to the source of that interconnection.

  • July 29, 2012 at 9:21 am |

    Easiest & fastest way to connect with God is through our inner conscious &, feelings, thoughts, true love, desires devotion faith & patience. If we have lived our life as caring/compassionate person then we have nothing to fear from God. If we are deceitful or self centred then God caution us. God is not a visual entity God is a matter of Realization. A form of feel, We feel Him. when we are in helpless position & are forced to surrender. God is Truth. God is Universal Conscious. God is in beauty of Nature. Human beings are empowered with Knowledge which emanates from HIM. He works strange ways. If we have feelings of compassion/mercy then we can discover Him, which is a phenomena or a set of feelings. The Nature is perfect God. Nature has given us sufficient skills to lead our lives peacefully. This is duty of nature to address grievances of the needy. We all are parts of God & Suffering is a part of our life.
    If we go to a peaceful isolated place & ask our genuine questions/doubts from God loudly. We get replies in our mind in the form of thoughts. Understand Spiritual awakening make people knowledgeable about self They can differentiate betw’n good/bad Light in them eliminates darkness. Understand we see dynamic source of energy in cosmos in form of vibrations during the continuous process of remembering OM the supreme power. Understand Space possess Dark Matter, which manifest itself into any form & may pass through our body & OM word creates vibrations in matter. Om is part of omniscience, the seed of omniscience. Om means vibration of the Universe Vibratory effect of the word. Om brings knowledge/wisdom~mohanalok

  • July 28, 2012 at 3:13 pm |

    Spiritual & Religious people at times suffocate others with their psychic belief system. Healthiest & Wise path of life is to let others live with their individual beliefs. God has provided a power of intellect to every human being. We may use this power to derive pleasure from Spiritual/Materialistic world & get eternal bliss.God is absolute. Eternal God may manifest in all human beings. God is a carrier of prime consciousness, which creates a concept of Being Human. Purpose of life is to discover ways to improve conscious. God has already decided our destinies We have to work for achieving our Destination/ Right Path. Materialistic World creates Passions which may lead 2 lust When lust is unsatisfied It turns into wrath which is transformed into illusion. Awareness of functioning of minds may motivate us to work hard for fulfilment of our needs & ambitions Truthfulness of mind always pays us. We learn moral values from our upbringing. We must learn to listen others for our growth. We must put our faith in God & care our values & actions~mohanalok

  • July 28, 2012 at 6:01 am |

    मुक्त है गगन मेरा मुक्त है मेरी हवाएँ !
    मुक्त धरती है हमारी मुक्त है अब कल्पनाएँ
    दासता से है युगों की देश ने अब मुक्ति पाई
    अब न मेरे देश का धन भूखे किसानो से छिनेगा
    द्वेष मिट जाये यहाँ से कलेश कूट जाये यहाँ से
    सब सुख समृधि होवे सवर्ग ले आयें धरा पर ~मेहता वसिष्ठ

  • July 28, 2012 at 5:49 am |

    मैं न हूंगा, पर रहेंगे गीत मेरे !
    एक दिन यह देह मेरी, ख़ाक का एक ढेर
    धूल ही रहे गी, या रहेंगे गीत मेरे !
    राख मेरी को हवाएँ, ले दिशाओं में उर्ढ़ेंगी
    हडिओं को नदी की धार सहसा ले बहेगी
    स्नेहिओं के हर्दयिओन में भी, याद धुंधली पड़ जायेगी ~मेहता वसिष्ठ

  • July 24, 2012 at 11:44 am |

    Organizing for Success at individual level
    Getting organized pays us handsome rewards. We must avoid drowning in a sea of paperwork & enhance our productivity with efficient systems & concentrate on information flow. Disorganization costs time, money, frustration and possibly our health. What we need is a motivation to change the available tools and methods. Getting organized pays us handsome rewards. As we are aware a messy, cluttered desk always contributes to loss of control, lack of focus, incomplete work, lost information and missed deadlines. The only remedy to get out from such situations is that we should
    “Be wise & organize”
    FACT” of organizing is
    “File it, Action it, Calendar it, Trim it”
    To find a place for all your papers is one thing but to actually find them, literally in seconds, when you need them is more important. As an individual you must have a “System”, a time-tested filing system and you see you become Paper Tiger and become an invaluable part of the Organization, where you are serving.
    Organizing for Success at Community level
    Any Community seeking success at organization level must have a clear vision. It is not necessary for each individual to be a visionary leader and make a difference in a community. All what is required is that each individual should have a desire to focus his energy to achieve success, while the visionary leaders may identify visioning efforts of each individuals and design appropriate visioning process and formulate Vision statement and common values so as to achieve community Goals. The Vision statement should be easy to read, easy to understand & easy to remember and should be highly inspirational. Community Leaders may organize events to celebrate all major milestones for increasing awareness among individual community members. This would help them to have better control over time and all assigned tasks. We find increased productivity with such value-generating activities. We all are aware that One of the most important things, when we are organizing our life for success, is that we must have an environment that is conducive with our goals. Therefore we must Schedule our activities for Success and Productivity. We must create an environment conducive for achieving our community goals of success.

    Alok Mohan

  • July 24, 2012 at 11:27 am |

    DESTINY

    Dreams are like Stars & if we follow them then they may lead us to our Destiny. All our deeds decide what we are going to accomplish in the future. A successful life is a future result of the present and the past activities of a person. Destiny perhaps is something different and very superstitious. Destiny is the resultant of our Efforts & our Stars ie Our Luck. Destiny is the result of our efforts, our luck, our behaviour & our approach to different stressful situations of our lives.. If We fail, it is our fault as we had not planned and acted enough to drive the particular situation successfully to meaningful end. Intelligent thoughts and reasonable ideas conclude all situations to successful ends. Failure always disappoints us & hurts our “self esteem”. In order to protect against such hurt to self esteem, we resort to apportioning blame on others instead of analyzing where we went wrong. In the game of apportioning blame, Destiny is the easiest and the most handy target to have a go at, without being contradicted first hand

    Success and failure are part of our day-to- day life. We cant always be happy in life. But we can always have peace of mind ie during the moments of extreme joy as well as during the most saddest moments of our life. God gave us two precious things ie Mind & Heart. We must keep our heart with full of love and kindness & use our mind to understand good and bad. Working condition of mind, means accepting good things and ignoring the bad ones. If we make them work in a wrong way then the gift given by God is wasted. We must realise that God has given us an ability to completely control on our mind. With the help of mind we can control our destiny. We are happy because we wanted to be happy. We are sad because we did not want to be happy. We are successful because we longed for it. We are a failure because we never tried to be successful. We therefore can choose our ultimate destiny. God has given us some control on our destiny. Mind is always asking for some fun. How do we have fun? By using the five sensory organs- eyes, nose, ears, tongue, and skin. For example, a child had its first taste of ice cream. It liked it. Mind will remember how it tasted. Next day it will prompt the child to ask for ice cream again. Another example – a man walks into a bar and tastes alcohol. Mind will remember and next day make him taste alcohol again. So on and so forth. If we become slaves of mind and its means of having fun which is destructive, we can lose control over our Destiny. God has given us is a way to control our mind. A way of disciplining our mind. Instead of listening to our mind, make our mind listen to what we tell it to do. With the help of discipline, one can control one’s destiny. Which is possible by controlling our own mind and the thoughts it produces. So God has given us a mind and complete ability to control it.

    Our ultimate destiny is our Death, after discharge of our duties of life. Death which is a change of our existence & an invitation to an eternal life, a beginning, the introduction to an immortal life.
    Just as life comes into the world through an act of creation and a determining, so too departure from the world is through a creation and determining, through a wise and purposeful direction.
    Death of a seed is a start of new life.
    Alok Mohan

  • July 24, 2012 at 11:25 am |

    When Ignorance is Bliss

    This is human nature to crave for knowledge and most of us have a burning desire to grow in all fields & become famous. We do desire for care & love also. The desire comes from our ego. Controlling ego & desires lead to spiritual progression & Complete Knowledge. We all know Knowledge is bliss. However Complete ignorance, at times is also bliss. Ignorance is bliss because if we don’t know something, it can’t hurt us. As long as we don’t know some future events, we are happy. However, we can not live in isolation For example, one of our close friends has been doing something that may hurt us. But we can remain happy with that person till the time we are ignorant of his actions. Once we know the truth, our happiness is gone. However this may be applied in specific situations. So when ignorance is bliss, this is stupidity to be wise. Once We loose our ignorance and bliss with innocence then we gain knowledge, compassion, and understanding.. knowledge is an essential part of our life to progress. little knowledge is also very important as little knowledge leads to more knowledge. Nobody can remain ignorant forever- whether he wants it or not he has to move from ignorance to little knowledge and gradually to greater knowledge. We must try seeking knowledge. Complete knowledge is real bliss. While Total ignorance is a state where we do not know or understand particular situation. Ignorance is our own perspective that gives us temporary pleasure. When we are ignorant we may make a mistake of blaming the external world for our ailments. We must always remember if our eyes are positive , we would like all the people in the world and if our tongue is positive all people in the world will like us

  • July 20, 2012 at 1:11 am |

    Behavioural traits like Anger, Hate and Jealousy are normal parts of our life. We must accept the fact that social barriers do restrict our behaviour. Anger Fear hate jealousy & violence r behavioural traits & are visible when an individual is subjected to stressful situations. Anger is a depressive state of mind. During depressed state it appears that everyone & everything is against us. Such occasions, we must take care of ourselves. We can not fight jealous people & waste our energy & time. If someone belittles us, then we must understand that it is really just jealousy talking. Jealousy is an attitude of hating others & creates negative feelings within us. One may be ambitious to achieve success but Jealousy destroys a person. Understand the Attributes of Devil ie Anger Hate Jealousy Revenge lead to Chain of Destructive events & may presumably lead to end of universe one day. Forgiveness Mercy Gentleness Sacrifice Selflessness Unconditional love & Respect for all are attributes of God, While opposite is true for the Devil. God has sent us to this world for some cause & we have to do that. We must Set our mind to a Goal & put efforts to accomplish the task & think positive. All the attributes of God & Devil may be seen in us in the form of behavioural traits & may be felt by us in the form of our thinking process. Life is about money & power – which is good if it is in good hands. We must show love & compassion to people around us so that they can enjoy life~mohanalok

  • July 19, 2012 at 3:29 pm |

    God exist in our faith & belief. Had there been no intelligent force, it would have been difficult to maintain ecological balance of universe. Belief in God gives meaning to Cosmic processes. Religion comprise manifested beliefs of mankind to elevate to higher plane of consciousness. God possess supreme powers & enables us with adequate powers to gain strength. When we are depressed, he helps us to restore our confidence. All energies of universe are emanating from super conscious Souls transformed to higher conscious are free from pains & pleasures of the life. Contentment/Attainment are complimentary to each other. We must practice contentment & work for Attainment & Surrender to God in case of failures. Mind is never content with best of possessions. Best & most suitable way to experience GOD is, to feel Him, Feel good, Do good, keep Mind clean. God’s presence is generally felt by the mentally depressed people, who have faith in Him. Our thoughts & emotions always take us to His empire. Miraculous intervention by God do happen to save this universe. God is Truth. Illusion/False imaginations about God are, creation of some idle minds~mohanalok

  • July 19, 2012 at 9:23 am |

    Life is not about Money & Materials, but it is about love & compassion. These qualities make us better human & therefore we enjoy spiritual & worldly pleasures. Emotional tears are symptoms of caring attitude & this is the only way of recovering from sadness or happiness. we should be honest & brave to admit our mistakes. Understanding how others Feel. Feeling Sorry for others being kind to others & expressing sympathy with soft words are attributes of a Complete man.
    We can’t achieve complete control on life . As a result, we may loose patience. Anger is a symptom of loosing patience & is an animal instinct. Tension/Fears are part of Defence mechanism to anticipate future situations & prepare us for appropriate reaction. Depression may be considered as acceptance of Defeat. Contentment leads to sense of inner calm & balances us while Attainment & therefore satisfy our egoistic needs while acceptance provides controls on our emotions. Concept of contentment should not be associated to lack of enthusiasm or absence of enterprising efforts but with Acceptance of Truth& /Reality~mohanalok

  • July 19, 2012 at 8:26 am |

    God answers those prayers which are in harmony with His plan for the mother earth. God is aware that most times we can care for her. But God intervenes when we are helpless.
    Worship has nothing to do with God & our prayers may not be acceptable. Worship is a personal way to communicate with God to purify ourselves only. People pursue their own ways of religious beliefs. Belief in God comes from self realization only. Imagining God is the best way to relax our mind. God never interferes with our day to day activities. God only intervenes at the time of crisis only. Death is a final effort of God to save us. God’s presence is felt in Heart Caring & Compassionate attitude & is reflected through our eyes which is a doorway to our heart. When lust passions desires make us to concentrate on God then craze within us make us mad & create psychic powers which connect us with Him. Sorrows are creation of depressed minds. God may have no time to look into our sorrows. But if we concentrate our mind into God, we get out of depression. Belief & faith in God drive us through ups & Downs of life & provide us necessary strength to face situational stresses of tough &crazy times~mohanalok

  • July 19, 2012 at 7:07 am |

    Creator, who is also Destroyer, also exist in the nature as energies of creation, preservation & destruction. People with experiences feel Divine power. I feel victims of violent crimes must stay strong & have belief in the Supreme ie the creator. Traumatic experiences connect us to Him, earlier then others. Caring for all ie People, Animals & Birds who depend on us for their survival are Godly attributes Love charity compassion for others, connect us with God. When in pain, anxious Moments, at times, bring us to a depressed state of mind. Tuning mind to thoughtless state & then to jobs which interest, make us feel better.
    God’s presence is felt during prayers meditation or during state of extreme distress. We need to concentrate & calm down our thoughts & emotions, so as to feel the Divine power.
    Meditation is one of the processes of becoming aware of Lords creation. This depends on our connection with cosmic energy Thoughts represent our state of mind at a particular state of universe. Understand Heaven & Hell are creation of a Human Mind. Lord’s creation is this universe of enlightenment & knowledge thro’ the state of our consciousness~mohanalok

  • July 17, 2012 at 9:22 am |

    Belief in Partners is must for healthy Relationship. Distrust originates bet’n partners based on false Rumors. Honest Communication is must. Betrayal by Beloveds, make people scared to develop Great Love Relationships. Selfish/impulsive behavior may adversely affect our relationships. Same cultural background & moral values are important to build great love relationships bet’n partners. Loving/Caring without wanting something in return from Partners build great relationships & develop special bond, which can never ever be broken.
    Love comes from our heart & not mind. True Love must leave a Legacy. Evil Souls may always get angry over every small issue & may create anxious moments for the people around them. Evil souls may exhibit aggressive & arrogant attitude. Evil souls may not reciprocate love in a positive way. Accepting Evil or surrendering to it is the only way to build a great relationship with such souls. For building Gr8 relations, We must know the art of getting impressed as we all are motivated by self-interest. Difficult Relations bet’n egoistic partners never get better, if one partner does all Compromising. Partners must keep good timings in heart. Life is lived with all types of stresses. Great Relationships develop, if we perfect in Stress management. Living for self & not for a nut matters. Great Relationships may not necessarily guarantee happiness, but definitely increase the comfort level bet’n Partners which is due to an emotion that is Love.
    We develop great relations, when We sacrifice our needs for other person. Feelings towards others decide strength of bonding bet’n different relations. There’s nothing like Perfect Relationship as we all make mistakes. We must work out balance for harmonic relations as events in life are not smooth. Trust, Understanding, Commitment, Honesty, Love, Respect & Communication are important behavioral attributes, for development of Great Relationships
    If We allow child inside us to stay & try to be childish with a smiling face We can build up great relationships with people, Who matter us most. Learning lessons hard way make us humble & direct us to Path of spirituality. With these hardships we are closely connected to God & He cares for us. Any sacred bond, which may have been forgotten/devalued shall always be much more than marriage reproductions or physical pleasures of life.~mohanalok

  • July 17, 2012 at 6:29 am |

    God answers the people who pray him sincerely during their lowest & darkest times. He has given us Life & wants us to face challenges of Life. Happiness moves bet’n Attachment/Detachment from this materialistic world. Detachment, some times, takes away our all pains & worries. Some times Attachment gives us pleasures. We may choose Attachment or detachment to get pleasure. Happiness is therefore state of choice & not state of mind. World is an Ocean where Bigger Fish eats Smaller. God believes in Survival of the Fittest Grief Sorrow Pain etc are for refinement of our souls. God resides in those caring truthful & conscious souls who spread selfless message of Love. Killings Hurting others & Lies represent a Devil~mohanalok

  • July 16, 2012 at 12:37 am |

    Understand Soul is State of consciousness & provide us awareness/sensation & create thoughts & emotions. Our behavioral traits depend on our thoughts. Understand soul is the intellect ie the Conscious. Our Mind provides us Emotions & Desires. Soul educates our mind & influence our emotions. If we try to feel God,s presence in self instead of searching Him outside, we find our souls are getting purified & we feel extreme pleasure & Joy. Understand Love Affection Compassion Caring etc are virtues of God ie Divine power & are Gifted to Humans to follow the path of true realization. Love Affection & inspirations come from God in the form of opposite Sex ie Caring & Loving each other, is essential for the survival of humanity. God may demonstrate his existence to reassure us His presence. As He cares for all of us. Miracle is something which is not humanly possible. God don’t need miracles to demonstrate His Power. His entire creation itself is a great miracle Those who pretend miraculous acts are driven by self interests. Understand God has given us 20 % of Rational part of Brain to know Him.God connects with us thro’ heart & not thro’ this evolutionary part of brain. He leave it on us to perceive Him according to the rational part of our brain. As this part deteriorates Subconscious part of our Brain takes over & connect us with Him directly. Understand Path leading to God is very narrow. Strengths Weaknesses Abilities Needs Desires Emotions etc are essential parts of Human Life~mohanalok

  • July 15, 2012 at 3:15 am |

    God puts selected people in right path & right direction & divert their attention so as to change them so that they follow destined direction of life. Storms are corrective actions of God to maintain balance of various forces. We must note that without pain, there’s no growth. Every difficult situation strengthens us. When in distress, we approach God to help us & seek his forgiveness & ask for Strengths. But once We become Strong, we start behaving as if we are God~mohanalok

  • July 13, 2012 at 10:00 pm |

    Motivation driven by Interest, Money & Grades etc are meant for winning/beating & therefore focus people on Reward only & not Real Action. What matters to every one is the is Behavior & Attitude.. Attitude is an expression of mind If we think Others are inferior to us, then we may put others down. Treat others the way we wish to be treated. Negative thinking may also have a positive effect & may increase our awareness. If our Actions are not negative, then we develop positive attitude~mohanalok

  • July 12, 2012 at 8:29 am |

    Managing Time

    I think time is the only thing that makes us realize that we are mortal. It helps us to understand that we are changing ie growing up and getting older, both mentally as well as physically. Hence to bring success in our lives , time management is important

    Time is the most precious wealth we have. Once time is gone, it would. never come back. We must learn how to manage our time, as time is as good as wealth. I remember my school days, when our teachers advised us to make time table and assign appropriate time for each subject and we used to make timetable. Any student who could manage his time successfully, could score higher then others in various exams.

    Our life also do need similar time table so that we don’t waste time in non- productive activities and are successful in all of those endeavours, we attempt.
    We must make a “To Do” list every day and use spare minutes wisely and find the right time to do tasks,

    Following tips may help with time management:
    1. Don’t waste time. For example now a days people waste lot of time in Web Surfing, On Line Chatting, checking un desired e-mails/Spam etc.
    2. Carry a notebook. If we carry a note book & pencil, then Even if we have 15 minutes to wait at the doctor’s office or any other place, we can begin to formulate a blog post or sketch some of our other ideas/plans
    3. Keep a calendar. We are used to keep several things in our head and just get them done as quickly as possible. But if we keep a calendar in which we plan out projects, estimating the number of hours things will take. This exercise may go a long way towards eliminating time stress in our lives and we witness we have a clear plan for getting everything accomplished on time.
    ( Time Stress: To understand Time Stress, let us assume Two places ie Place A & Place B are 60 Kms apart. It takes one hour to cover the distance by Motor Cycles. If a Boss instructs an individual to cover the distance in 45 minutes, the individual shall be subjected to time stress and may exhibit abnormal traits. He may drive rashly and may meet with accident. Same case is true with our life journey)
    4. Work anywhere and everywhere. We may use laptop and get some things accomplished any where & every where .

    5. Break all tasks into small bits. If you have even one minute, You may utilize that minute to get closer to finishing your task.

    6. Learn to say no. That is a hard one for some… really hard but it definitely helps in relieving you from Situational stresses.
    Alok Mohan

  • July 12, 2012 at 8:11 am |

    Attitude & Behaviour

    Attitudes develop during one’s formative years of life. Human Traits develop based on, what we read, what we hear & see and What we think & imagine.
    These inputs are judged/evaluated by our brains on a continuous and cumulative basis and it is these values that we get from them which create and direct our attitudes. Attitudes are therefore our reactions to our experiences in addition to role played by our genetic make up in terms of “how we judge or value each experience”. A person’s attitude & behaviour keeps changing as the situation in life keeps pouring ‘inputs’ into that person. True, some traits take longer to under go changes.
    Genetic level qualities too are yet stronger. That is why the system of ‘arranged’ marriages which also involves “Family background, Roots, Astrological Matching etc … has withstood as a tradition for thousands of years.
    Social rules, intrinsic rules set out by cultures or groups of people, that govern interaction and communication between various ethnic groups. An Individual’s Behaviour may be considered appropriate in one ethnic group, but then the same behaviour may completely be unacceptable in another ethnic group. For example, in some families/ethnic groups it is against their conscious to eat non-vegetarian food. It is morally not acceptable to eat non-veg food, while for others it may be perfectly normal.

    The Conscience therefore allows and disallows different behaviour patterns among different groups. Society has created many rules for appropriate & inappropriate behaviours. If the human society do not differentiate between appropriate and inappropriate behaviours, then there would not be any difference between the human society and the animal society ie there would be no difference between humanism and animalism.
    I understand, so far Behaviour Specialists have identified three thousand Behaviour Patterns ie Traits.

    To develop Positive attitude & Good Behaviour/Mannerism among children following are the tips for Parent

    1. BE FIRM, CONSISTENT, AND KIND Remember the power of praise and reward. Use a positive attitude and not a punitive one in dealing with your child. Establish clear ground rules when the child is young and keep those rules with appropriate amendments. As the child matures and improves in judgment, give him more leeway.
    2. LISTEN Listen actively to your child. This sets a good example and helps the child feel important and valued. Remember, if you do not want your child to tune you out, do not tune the child out.

    3. DO NOT HAGGLE OR NEGOTIATE OVER SMALL THINGS — Make a clear decision. Right or wrong, it is better than haggling. .

    4. GIVE CHILD CHORES — Keep the chore appropriate and keep clear guidelines as to who will do what and when. Select one or two chores and be prepared that it will also take your time. Goodwill and many calm reminders may be necessary to get those chores done. Parents who share duties and chores with their child help to build self-discipline and a sense of responsibility.

    5 HELP THE CHILD REMEMBER — Many children are forgetful. Keep a short list of tasks. A list is impersonal, and the child will gain satisfaction as he checks off those tasks that he completes.

    6 HELP YOUR CHILD ORGANIZE

    7 AVOID FATIGUE — When children are tired, their self-control breaks down. Rest, relaxation and regular routine are particularly needed for children.

    8 PROVIDE OUTLETS FOR THE RELEASE OF EXCESS ENERGY Because their energy should not be bottled up, children need daily constructive and creative activities that may include running, biking, swimming, sports, etc

    9 ACCEPT YOUR CHILD’S LIMITATIONS, RECOGNIZE STRENGTHS, Un due criticism or attempts to change the energetic youngster into a “model” child, may cause more harm than good.

    10 PRAISE OR PUNISHMENT MUST BE IMMEDIATE & APPROPRIATE BEHAVIORS SHOULD BE REWARDED

    It is nice to be sensitive with child. But being “over sensitive” can prove other way. For instance, when you speak to him and he cries at the drop of a hat – that hidden message, from him, is: “If I cry people will sympathise me and understand that I just can’t take criticism and they won’t do it again because they know it makes me cry”
    This act works very well for the child. He is controlling you in a very manipulative way.
    We must reward good behaviour of a child adequately to prevent him controlling us and at the same time, we must make him understand that good behaviour do not benefit always like this

    “But the consequences of bad behaviour are always, always “very un pleasant”
    Alok Mohan

  • July 9, 2012 at 12:21 pm |

    Anger Management

    Anger is an emotion which, at times, is more hurtful then Physical injuries. The physical effects of anger include increased heart rate, blood pressure etc. Anger becomes the predominant feeling behaviorally, cognitively, and physiologically when a person makes the conscious choice to take action to immediately stop the threatening behavior of any outside force. Extreme anger and obsessive thoughts can be signs of depression. Like any other emotion, it is accompanied by physiological changes ie when you get angry, your heart rate and blood pressure go up.
    Anger can be caused by both external and internal events. You could be angry at any specific person or any situational or time stress ie event (a traffic jam, a cancelled flight etc etc ), or your anger could be caused by worrying or brooding about your personal problems. Memories of traumatic or enraging events can also trigger angry feelings. We express anger by responding aggressively.
    Anger is a natural, adaptive response to threats. It inspires powerful, often aggressive, feelings and behaviours, which allow us to fight and to defend ourselves when we are attacked. A certain amount of anger, is definitely necessary to our survival. On the other hand, we can’t physically lash out at every person or object that irritates or annoys us. Laws & social norms place limits on how far our anger can take us.
    There are three main approaches ie expressing, suppressing, and calming

    1. Expressing your angry feelings in an assertive—not aggressive—manner

    2. Stop thinking about the issues disturbing you and focus on some other positive issues. However prevent anger turning inward ie on yourself. Anger turned inward may cause hypertension, high blood pressure, or depression

    3. You can calm down inside. This means not just controlling your outward behaviour, but also controlling your internal responses, taking steps to lower your heart rate, calm yourself down, and let the feelings subside.

    Note: When none of these three techniques work, that’s when someone or something is going to get hurt.

    The goal of anger management is to reduce both your emotional feelings and the physiological arousal that anger causes. You can’t get rid of or avoid, the things or the people that enrage you, nor can you change them, but you can learn to control your reactions.
    Why Are Some People More Angry Than Others?
    Some people really are more “hot headed” than others.
    They get angry more easily and more intensely than an average person. People who are easily angered generally have low tolerance for frustration. They can’t take things in stride, and they’re particularly infuriated if the situation seems somehow unjust. Generally People, who are easily angered come from families that are disruptive, chaotic, and not skilled at emotional communications. It’s best to find out what it is that triggers your anger, and then to develop strategies to keep those triggers from tipping you over the edge.

    How To Avoid Anger

    · When you are subjected under Instantaneous Stress

    When some people are subjected to Instantaneous Stresses, they tend to curse, swear, or speak in highly colorful terms which may reflect their inner thoughts. Your thinking may get very exaggerated and overly dramatic. We must try replacing these thoughts with more rational ones under such situations.

    For instance, instead of telling yourself,
    “oh, Everything’s ruined,”
    Tell yourself
    “It’s frustrating, but it’s not the end of the world. Getting angry is not going to fix it anyhow”
    And thereafter try to Relax by deep breathing and calm down your angry feelings by saying “ All is Well, All is Well”
    Examples of Instantaneous ie Spontaneous Stresses are Road Accidents, Some One abusing you etc

    When you are subjected to Situational Stresses
    When you are being subjected to Situational Stress, your anger is justified and that there’s no way to solve particular Situation.
    Under such circumstances, Remind yourself that getting angry is not going to fix anything, that it won’t make you feel better and Anger may actually make you feel worse. Logic defeats anger, because anger, even when it’s justified, can quickly become irrational.. Remind yourself that you’re just experiencing some of the rough spots of life. The best attitude to bring to such a situation, is not to focus on just finding the solution only, but rather on how you must handle and face the particular situation.
    Non strenuous, slow yoga-like exercises can relax your muscles and make you feel much calmer. Practice these techniques daily. Learn to use them automatically when you’re in stressful situation.

    · Better Communication It’s natural to get defensive when you’re in conflict. but don’t fight back. Instead, listen to what’s underlying the message that other person might feel to convey. It may take a lot of patient questioning on your part, and it may require some breathing space, but don’t let your anger spin out of control. Keeping your cool can keep the situation from becoming a disastrous one

    · Using Humour “Silly humour” can help defuse rage in a number of ways. For one thing, it can help you get a more balanced perspective. When you get angry and call someone a name or refer to them in some imaginative phrase, stop and picture what that word would literally look like. Do this whenever a name comes into your head about another person. If you can, draw a picture of what the actual thing might look like. This will take a lot of the edge off your fury; and humour can always be relied on to help unknot a tense situation. Use humour to help yourself face the situation more constructively. Second, don’t give in to harsh, sarcastic humour; that’s just another form of unhealthy anger expression. For Example I used to loose anger on the Bad & Abusive behaviour of Mr X . I started imagining his name as “Jhuddu Singh” and used to draw imaginery funny pictures of Mr X in my mind. Every time, I saw him with his family, I imagined Jhudu Singh along with Foot balls ie his family members . I could substantially vent my anger after the misadventures of the individual. Whenever i met him on Cross Roads, I recollected his funny Pictures and gave him Broad Smile. ( Of Course My Internal Anger has now been transferred to him )

    · Changing Your Environment Sometimes it’s our immediate surroundings that give us cause for irritation and fury. Problems and responsibilities can weigh on you and make you feel angry at the “trap” you seem to have fallen into. Give yourself a break. Make sure you have some “personal time” scheduled for times of the day that you know are particularly stressful. One example is the working mother who has a standing rule that when she comes home from work, for the first 15 minutes “nobody talks to Mom unless the house is on fire.” After this brief quiet time, she feels better prepared to handle demands from her kids without blowing up at them. Some Other Tips for Easing Up on Yourself
    Timing: If you and your spouse tend to fight when you discuss things at night—perhaps you’re tired, or distracted, or maybe it’s just habit. Try changing the times when you talk about such important matters. You shall find these talks do not turn into arguments. Avoidance: If your child’s chaotic room makes you furious every time you walk by it, shut the door. Don’t make yourself look at what infuriates you. Don’t say, “well, my child should clean up the room so I won’t have to be angry!” That’s not the point. The point is to keep yourself calm. Finding alternatives: If your daily commute through traffic leaves you in a state of rage and frustration, give yourself a project. Learn or map out a different route, one that’s less congested or more scenic. Or find another alternative, such as a bus or commuter train. Do You Need Counselling? If you feel that your anger is really out of control, if it is having an impact on your relationships and on important parts of your life, you might consider counselling to learn how to handle it better. A psychologist or other licensed mental health professional can work with you in developing a range of techniques for changing your thinking and your behaviour. Remember, you shall never be able to eliminate anger completely from your life. In spite of all your efforts, there shall be situations which cause you anger may be justifiable anger. Life will be filled with frustration, pain, loss, and the unpredictable actions of others. You can’t change that; but definitely you can change the way you let such events affect you & your health by controlling your Anger.

    Psychologists recommend a balanced approach to anger, which both controls the emotion and allows the emotion to express itself in a healthy way. Some descriptions of actions of anger management are:

    Direct, such as not beating around the bush, making behavior visible and conspicuous, to indicate angry feelings clearly and honestly,
    Honorable, such as making it apparent that there is some clear moral basis for the anger
    Focused, such as sticking to the issue of concern, not bringing up irrelevant material.
    Persistent, such as repeating the expression of feeling in the argument over and over again, standing your ground, self defense.
    Courageous, such as taking calculated risks, enduring short term discomfort for long term gain, risking displeasure of some people
    Passionate, such as using full power of the body to show intensity of feeling, being excited and motivated, acting dynamically and energetically, initiating change, showing fervent caring, being fiercely protective, enthusing others.
    Creative, such as thinking quickly, using more wit, spontaneously coming up with new ideas and new views on subject.
    Forgiveness, such as demonstrating a willingness to hear other people’s anger and grievances, showing an ability to wipe the slate clean once anger has been expressed.
    Listen to what is being said to you. .
    Physiological disorders like Thyroid problem, essential hypertension also contribute to anger and that can be controlled if those disorders are treated well by medical practitioners.
    By developing feelings of love, compassion and urge to help others by peaceful ways, one can control anger. Alok Mohan

  • July 9, 2012 at 2:27 am |

    God speaks to different people in different ways Sometimes He gives feelers. He may respond using means like Numbers Pictures Words etc etc. Man made disasters are followed by Natural disasters which may lead to end of earth. Our actions may lead to deadly consequences for earth. Earth provides enough to satisfy every man’s need, but not his greed. Earth is a thinking Planet & try to2 balance our deeds thro’ natural disasters. God always caution us before any Natural Disasters. He helps us stay calm. Some humans are empowered to know ahead of time & see any dangerous area. GOD is a matter of Realization. God is a feeling, which evolves through Spirituality. God lives in our hearts. We feel his kindness without seeing Him. If u want to see God – Love all – Serve all- Help all & Never Hurt. Do good See good Be good This is the way to get blessings & Love of God. Those Who experienced God have unsuccessfully tried many ways to describe their experiences. But to understand God, people must have nice heart.
    God is like light that dwells with Him. If we focus on it, He gets illuminated. To see an object, Eye has to focus, while light is everywhere -Idol Worship is an example of this kind of worship.
    If we have to discover self then we must accept what we are. Carry out analysis of our traits Accept our selves. God exist in our subconscious mind. He is connected with our prayers. Thatz why our prayers are for our self satisfaction & mental peace~mohanalok

  • July 7, 2012 at 11:43 am |

    Human Needs

    People tend to excel to meet their unmet needs. Human Needs go beyond just food, water, clothing and shelter. Physiological needs are obvious as they are the literal requirements for human survival. If these requirements are not met, the human body simply cannot continue to function. Physiological needs include Breathing, Nutrition, Air, water, food etc. After physical needs are satisfied, individual’s safety needs take precedence and dominate his behavior. These needs have to do with people’s yearning for a predictable orderly world. Safety and Security needs include Personal security, Financial security, Health and well-being, Safety net against accidents/illness etc. Safety Needs & Psychological needs are satisfied then this fact may add to their happiness. We at times get confused & consider Needs with Wants. We must know that Needs are life supporting, whereas wants are optional. Happiness is a subjective thing that differs from individual to individual. Safety security is a need for structure, predictability, stability, and freedom from fear and anxiety. While belongingness/Love is a need to be accepted by others and to have strong personal ties with one’s family, friends, and identity groups. Self-esteem is a need to be recognized by oneself and others as strong, competent, and capable person. Personal fulfillment is a the need to reach one’s potential in all areas of life. After physiological and safety needs are fulfilled, the third layer of human needs are social and involve feelings of belongingness This aspect involves emotionally based relationships in general, such as Friendship, Intimacy, Family etc. The need for self identity is in relation to the outside world. Identity becomes a problem when one’s identity is not recognized by society or when it is considered inferior or is threatened by others with different identifications. Cultural security is a need related to identity, the need for recognition of one’s language, traditions, religion, cultural values, ideas, and concepts. Freedom is a condition of having no physical, political, or civil restraints; having the capacity to exercise choice in all aspects of one’s life. Distributive Justice is a need for the fair allocation of resources among all members of a Family/a Community/a Nation. Human needs theorists argue that one of the primary causes of protracted or intractable conflict is people’s unyielding drive to meet their unmet needs on the individual, group, and societal level. What a man can be, he must be and this forms the basis of the perceived need for self-actualization. All humans have a need to be respected and to have self-esteem and self-respect. Also known as the belonging need, esteem presents the normal human desire to be accepted and valued by others. People need to engage themselves to gain recognition and have an activity or activities that give the person a sense of contribution, to feel accepted and self-valued, be it in a profession or hobby. Imbalances at any level can result in low self-esteem/inferiority complex.
    Following needs, therefore, if satisfied may make people happy.
    v Safety Needs: Job Security, Social Security, financial security, Harmony
    v Psychological needs: Friends, Social Circle, Colleagues, Group
    v Esteem Needs: Power, Recognition, Status
    v Self Actualisation Needs: Peace
    Alok Mohan

  • July 7, 2012 at 3:28 am |

    Civilized Societies & Civilised Nations do not permit criticizing other Religions.Wars are caused by political motives & ambitions and not by religious beliefs, expansion of territory for natural resources. Religious books saying hate & destroy the infidel shows their shallowness. False claims of superiority over the principles of other religions forgetting defects & imperfections of our own belief system, create bitterness in society. Mythology is part of a religion to describe lives of Legends. However with Passage of time, Religious philosophy became superstitious . No Religion is required to get enlightened. Individuals, on the path of spiritual progress attain salvation without following any Religion. Meditation is a concept to feel positive energy around us. God is a Supreme Power While few Religions teach us about righteous things to serve God. As God is everywhere Human faith in Him is the main power to connect with Him He appeared in all objects of nature/creatures which human worshiped. Hinduism is a great cultural belief which was evolved & not established .Ancient human of this part of Asia, tried exploring God in objects/creatures like Fire, Mountains,Winds,Sun etc he found scaring. hinduism is a great tool to bind humanity. In any society without organised belief system, People may fight with each other on petty matters due pride & jealousy. Individuals worshiping & praying God in any form may directly connect with Super Power & therefore there is no conflict of religious interests as described in the religious literature of hinduism~mohanalok

  • July 7, 2012 at 3:16 am |

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  • July 7, 2012 at 2:51 am |

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  • July 7, 2012 at 1:55 am |

    Religions & Faiths are like Roads/Paths to reach God. These Roads are naturally getting renovated & regularly getting modified over the ages. Religious Methods used by individuals can’t be criticized. Freedom from Sorrows, Pain & Disease bring Mental Peace. Destiny brings happiness to those who connect with compassionate Lord thro’ Prayers. People who do not understand God always try to force their views on others. Instead of spreading Love, wisdom they try to insult other religious faiths. Religion is connected to faith & God takes the form of individual’s faith. Fear of unknown brings us closer to God, who is our ultimate Savior. Most of the scientific events are influenced by Religious Beliefs & Ideas Success of Scientific Research is determined by laws of nature designed by God. Religion is concept, which helps us in difficult times. If Truth & Honesty are not major part of our Religious Teachings then we land no where.
    Religions build cultural society Religions must issue instructions to their followers to live a gentle & genuine life. Else they may face Extinction from mother earth. Good Religions must teach positive behavioral traits & act like a good Mother. Religions must teach its followers to control evil thoughts. Good religion is like a good mother, who produces well behaved son, having love kindness & respect for others. Good religion never teaches cruelty~mohanalok

  • July 6, 2012 at 5:28 am |

    Sophistication
    Sophistication means a combination of worldly wisdom, self-confidence, and refinement in a person. We must try to become worldly-wise & not naïve by acquiring worldly knowledge. A Sophisticated person means that he is more refined in his approach. High quality education, proper grammar, and good etiquettes lead to development of sophisticated traits.
    While lacking natural simplicity, lacking ideas, tastes & manners are the traits of difficult people. If we desire to develop sophisticated traits in our children then we must try to become a Role Model as elder family members & give them opportunities to live and understand the cultural values of our Community. Our traditions, our Festivals & other ritual, we celebrate. We must appreciate them for their achievement.Difficult children are generally demanding & constantly fighting over non issues. The ability to control depends utterly on the ability of the elders of the family. When you have the ability face them and resolve their problems yourself, you feel wonderful. When you are able to reform your difficult child to a cultured child then you will really have a very satisfying experience~ mohanalok

  • July 6, 2012 at 4:19 am |

    We all are alone in life. We must see self with our own eyes & think about self with own mind. Judging self based on others minds brings us sorrow. Conflicts/ interests define depth of relationships. Some people look for divine relations as they know all relations in world are False/Temporary. True Relationship is Effect Inner Feelings is a cause. True Relationship is not Rain which pours & goes away Nor it is Air which is around us. True Relation is Warmth inside us. Marriage becomes absolute pleasure when two souls unite together This union ceases all Pain.Betrayal is an act of disloyalty & bring individuals near their enemies. Betrayal leads us to complete breakup & is much more painful then Physical injuries. Dreaming is a Defence mechanism for organizing the memories of our Brain. Dreams help maintain balance of mind. Day Dreaming is due to unfulfilled desires. We all are alone in World. We must see self with our own eyes & think about self with our own minds. Judging self based on others minds brings us sorrow. We get enlightened when we have unshaken belief in God. We must know him & accept His supremacy Desire Devotion &Surrender to God raise our souls. Natural Justice of God governs the Rhythm of our Life. If we give happiness, we get happiness Vice Versa. Law of Reciprocity ie Every Action has consequence. Enjoying life during on going moments make us contented. We earn happiness when our emotional, social, intellectual, spiritual & physical needs are met~mohanalok

  • July 6, 2012 at 12:58 am |

    Evolution

    GOD created us. We don’t know how God made our organs ie our livers, kidneys etc work. But we all know they do exist & work in perfect compatibility. We see every process of Nature in this Universe, compatible to other processes. This universe is in perfect balance exactly like Human Body.

    There is an assumption that we are related to Apes in a way where we are descendants and have evolved away from them. That way Lions and tigers are also closely related ie more than humans and monkeys. All these theories are full of holes. I feel Evolution is for the soul and not for the body

    Human being is not merely a body, but consciousness, i.e. living energy which is capable of self-awareness and that possesses mind and memory. Existing theories of Evolution are less scientific and more reliant upon beliefs.

    Creatures pass on their genetic information to their off springs. This is a natural mechanism by which the fittest members of a species survive to pass on their genetic information to their off springs through the reproductive process, while the weakest are eliminated.

    We all know the evolutionary formation of new biological species, usually by one species that divides into two or more species that are genetically unique. Speciation occurs when members of a species mutate to the point where they are no longer able to breed with other members of the same species. Through speciation, the genes of the new population become isolated from the previous group. Two species can have homologous anatomy even though they are not related in any way.

    Every religion is evolving a God out of human consciousness. Religion is some sort of a by product of evolution. Humans have evolved to a degree that they can realize they will die some day, and this is hard to swallow. Humans have been successful in following pattern. There is constant struggle to become perfect, to become divine & to reach God. We are entering a stage of ‘Self designed evolution’ where we will be able to select DNA and improve it in the ways we like. Earlier, evolution has been forming through ‘natural selection. Evolution was a natural way in which nature evolved or has chosen to evolve. Earlier Divine mother chose whichever way she liked. But now with the help of microevolution we can repair genetic defects. Our Consciousness is probably controlled by a large number of genes working in relation with one another. We may be able to change consciousness. We may be able to re-design our self with the help of micro evolution and may change our existing life form ie a life form which may be even be lighter then Air.
    Alok Mohan

  • July 5, 2012 at 9:02 am |

    Reality & spirituality are two faces of same coin & can be felt only after enlightenment, spirituality is a continuous process from birth to death. Energy of God can be seen throughout His glories like Sun Planets Moon Rain Plants etc are endless. Thanking him make a day worth living for
    Thoughts pass thro our subconscious mind as well as other minds. Our mind is part of Universal mind. Mind builds Spiritual Power. Thoughts passing thro’ our mind are responsible for everything that happens in our life. Thoughts influence our behaviour. It is impossible to dream Peace after forcing our Religious beliefs on others. Religion is just a path. True knowledge removes the darkness of ignorance. Ignorant Religious followers always dream & try to spread their own religious beliefs by the use of Force/Money or by trying to insult other’s belief system.
    Peace among people depend on their moral values & sense of right & wrong, While Religion can only show spiritual path to communicate with God Search for purpose of our life makes us spiritual. Life is like a journey with Emotions & Expectations. Religion shows us a Path to Spirituality. Spirituality is integral part of Religion Spirituality makes us aware of our inherent powers Spirituality is knowledge of souls & our mission. Divine religions were established by Great Philosophers with Divine inspirations. Major Contribution of Open minded Religions is that Set of Rules created on conduct ethics & morality of people led to a judicious society~mohanalok

  • July 4, 2012 at 7:20 am |

    Natural Justice of God govern the rhythm of our Life. If we give happiness then we get happiness & Vice Versa. Law of Reciprocity is applicable in this world. Every Action has a consequence. People need not to worship Him, for materialistic benefits as Destiny brings profit loss grief & happiness. Prayers are only meant for our internal peace. We get enlightened when we have unshaken belief in God. We must know him & accept His supremacy. Desire Devotion & Surrender to God raise our souls our conscious. Enjoying life during on going moments make us contented. We earn happiness, when emotional social intellectual spiritual & physical needs are met~mohanalok

  • July 3, 2012 at 8:33 am |

    Truth
    Truth is not necessarily the truth, it is just someone’s version of it. There are two sides to every coin, and there are more then one truths to each story and the absence of truth as well. Both truths are 100% correct. Neither are false. The point of view depends on the person holding the view. The diverse way that we look at the world gives things, ideas and values a different perspective and worth.
    It is emphasised, that the truth value of statements depend entirely on the state of the universe at the time when they are uttered. They may be “absolutely” true or false, but only at a given time/place.
    However, there are also kinds of statements whose truth values do not depend on the particular state of the universe at the time they are uttered. That is to say, they are either true/false for all possible states of the universe. True statements of this sort are called “self-evident truths” because the converse is inconceivable/unimaginable.

    Truth marches along long fields of winding shadows out of an abyss the cursed black hole. Truth is a shower of raining stars hailing down from the heavens it covers the earth
    makes is gold. Truth more desirable then many white diamonds it is the thing we search for
    a thing we prize the thing we hold

  • June 30, 2012 at 6:33 pm |

    Our existence in this materialistic World depends on our soul our body & our Mind. Our desires & our actions are inter related. We want to fulfill our desires ie the desires which connect us to materialistic world But this is our Mind, which again brings us to our Real world. When we learn from our mistakes, We become stronger to guard ourselves from big blunders We there after, build a clear vision for our future. Of course God listens to our desires. If We love our selves then God Shall love us If we take care of our selves, we shall discover the real meaning of our life.
    Satisfaction that We have enough in life, does not give us pleasure. Achievement in life & fulfillment of Desires may or may not give us Absolute Pleasure. Only way to control our emotions & develop insight/wisdom is to detach from both happiness & sadness & accept the real world as it is. kind people feel pain sadness of others. Feeling sympathy is natural Controlling emotions with Inner strength bring people near to Divinity. If we control our senses, emotions, anger etc We experience absolute truth For reaching this Supreme State, we have to get our soul purified. Intellectual functioning of human brain may create Ego, which may conflict with Reality & may become our biggest enemy & restrict our thinking. We Pray to elevate our minds to the frequencies of God in humbleness We connect our mind to His frequencies We need not to Beg Him. He cares ~mohanalok

  • June 29, 2012 at 7:16 am |

    Reincarnation is a natural process. This is a process like flow of energy. Some essential part of a living being survives death & is reborn in a new body. This essential part is often referred to as the soul. A new personality is developed during each birth. Some part of the previous birth always remains.

    Belief in reincarnation is an ancient phenomenon. When a human body dies the soul leaves it. Before a baby is born a soul enters the physical body. The soul brings with it the experiences and the knowledge gained in the past lives. There is a reason, why humans do not remember their past lives. This is because, we are supposed to go through the present life experiences without prejudice. Today science also proves and accepts that there exist some power, which we cannot see thro, naked eyes, but we can feel it. This is the Power, which cause this universe to exist. Reincarnation is something that we, as individuals have to recognize independently. Man is destined to die. We have got this life for salvation. Human life is a path to salvation. When People believe in reincarnation then they become more tolerant. There is no time, when the soul does not have a body. The soul takes rebirth again and again after death. Everybody is reincarnated. All that matters, is what we do in this life time. We can explain what is soul. We can explore soul. We can remember our past life. There are kind and gentle souls. There are evil souls. Being blessed with the good ones are, of course, we want to keep them around us forever. Death is physical absence, but beginning of our understanding about a person, whose presence is felt by the ‘heart prints’. He leaves this Physical world. We must recognise heart prints of departed souls & celebrate their Death. T he memories of the departed souls are guiding forces for the nears & dears of the deceased. Death is to be celebrated after a small shock & mourning. With this celebration, we give honour to the so called dead.

    We Hindus believe in the cycle of birth, death and rebirth. This doctrine is considered to be a basic tenet of Hinduism. According to doctrine of rebirth, differences between individuals, even at the time of their birth are due to their past karma i.e. actions done in the past birth. For example if one child is born healthy while another is handicapped or blind, the differences are attributed to their deeds in their previous lives. Those who believe in this theory, reason that since all actions may not bear fruit in this life, there has to be another life for facing or reaping the consequences of one’s earlier actions.
    Alok Mohan

  • June 27, 2012 at 5:24 pm |

    Knowledge and intelligence

    As a human being grows, he experiences several events both positive & negative. He meets all type of people. He builds up a temperament based on his past experiences. All this data is stored & interpreted in his Brain. Intelligence is developed as he grows. The Brain controls Mind and Senses. Senses are the receptors while Mind is the Reactor. Reaction of mind may be aggressive or may be calm based on Human temperament at particular situation. By using brain one can effectively manage a situation to his advantage & this ability of Brain may be termed as intelligence. Intelligence is property of brain, mind & senses. Capacities like Thought Process, Understanding, Communication Reasoning etc can be developed from knowledge. Knowledge is sum of ideas & facts you have stored in the Brain. expertise, and skills acquired by a person. Knowledge is what you have on your “hard drive”. It’s the accumulation of the information you know. Knowledge and intelligence are often linked, but they are not the same thing. Real intelligence is that is used to simplify the things rather complicating them due to personal insecurities. Intelligence is about analysing skill, about the data inputs received through perception, whether sensory levels or otherwise. Common sense is about making a choice with a proper assessment of the situation, with a sense of proportion about all aspects like time, place, feasibility, viability etc. knowledge is also used to mean the confident understanding of a subject with the ability to use it for a specific purpose. We use the word ‘lack of common sense’ when a person makes a stupid choice. We use intelligent, when a person analyses the perceived situation better. Individuals differ from one another in their ability to understand complex ideas, to adapt effectively to the environment, to learn from experience, to engage in various forms of reasoning, to overcome obstacles by taking thought. Although these individual differences can be substantial, they are never entirely consistent: a given person’s intellectual performance will vary on different occasions, in different domains, as judged by different criteria. Concepts of “intelligence” are attempts to clarify and organize this complex set of phenomena. Although considerable clarity has been achieved in some areas, no such conceptualization has yet been answered all the important questions, and none commands universal assent

  • June 27, 2012 at 9:50 am |

    We all have something unique to share with the World. We must try to not to let our self esteem be our enemy. We may be depressed but we should not be scared. A Person whose heart is kind whose speech is adorned with truth Whose body is for good of others can remain cheerful under all stressful situations. When emotions like hatred anger envy fear start guiding us then Decision made by us shall be unethical. This is Love & Creativity only which connects us with God.
    When We can not overcome Problems then We must lend our problems to God & must move on day to day basis, instead of turning towards addictions. Challenges/Problems in Life are like Sun Light & they are to be faced so as to get tanned & during end of every day, before we go to sleep they are to be put down as past experiences lay strong foundation of Emotions & give birth to Rage/Anger which emerges under stress. Creative Writing helps in managing Anger. Love is an expression of our Emotions. Love leads to extreme contentment if it is true else selfish love may lead to total Frustration & Distress. Stress is due reaction to events of life experiences & can be both +ve or -ve. Traits exhibited due distress are Tension. Irritability and Anger. Negative emotions initiate tensions & do not let us feel good & subject us to stress. Giving freedom with blessings to beloved make us feel good. Eu stress create positive feeling/positive influence/better awareness thus opening new doors of opportunity While Distress create feeling of distrust.
    When we are subjected to instantaneous stress we exhibit aggressive behavior pattern due the frustration & rage that exists within all of us. A day must start as beginning of life & finish by forgetting problems. This makes us stronger to face challenges of life & forget all these stresses
    Feeling of Distrust Rejection Anger Depression subject us to Distress &further lead to serious health problems like headache heart diseases. Eustress is achieved at work when individuals are provided adequate challenges at work Stress is not in our environment but in our body & mind
    Wealth is beneficial if we are Stress free. Depressed man convert prosperity to distress If Wealth accompany achievement then Stress becomes Eustress. Physical & emotional surroundings like happy home & office, Clean surroundings & Light music can impact stress levels in significant ways. Stress-relieving attitude depends on the way we perceive our life’s events. With this we let our Ego go & have an Optimistic approach to life. Stress may cause Anxiety & Health Problems and Stress adversely affects productivity. Feeling Good Taking Care of Self Developing Right Attitude & Right Environment around us, make us stress free~mohanalok

  • June 26, 2012 at 10:03 am |

    Salvation

    Most of the Religions claim that salvation can be attained by meditation, accumulation of wisdom, asceticism, rituals, or good deeds. Some religions teach that humans can be saved only through the grace granted by some Messenger of God. I feel neither of these paths for salvation are fully True nor are these Paths Fully False. Salvation need both inner Human Resources like Meditation & outer Resources like a Teacher. We all Human beings are Messengers of God but we do need a Teacher for direction to the Path of Salvation. Salvation means the end of this birth -life-death cycle ! Since we do not wish to go thru the miseries of life & death repeatedly, We pray for salvation. We prefer to be with our Creator. We do not wish to be part of this World with full of miseries. We are individual forms of God & our devotion and bhakti takes us to our creator. Salvation saves us from worldly sins. Each religion recommends certain way of reaching salvation. Main purpose behind salvation is to reduce the evil & sins which many humans have been committing during their life times. For achieving Salvation, We must have complete faith in God. If we have faith in God by heart, we will automatically achieve salvation. Without the confidence and reliance on one’s faith in God, individual would be a very miserable person. I feel we all have to return to God & be accountable for all the sins we have committed in our life time. We all are aware that our mind wanders due worldly affairs. Standstill mind always gives us temporary salvation. Therefore salvation at times become internal. Such cases we are just detaching from worldly affairs & establish connection with God Temporarily. Therefore this is our personal responsibility to discipline ourselves for our peace of mind. We may find only external guides and teachers to help us to stabilise from wandering minds, but there will be no saviour who will save us from our sins. The sins will keep on disturbing our mind till the time we are attached with this world. Detachment from the Worldly affairs may only help us from such cases temporarily. As by oneself an evil is done; by oneself is one’s image tarnished. By oneself is one made pure. Purity and impurity depended on oneself; no messenger can purify another messenger of God. Meditation is just renunciation of the fruit of all of our actions & this renunciation of our actions will only get us peace of mind. Taking control of the mind is a herculean task & we may think of rituals like Pooja, Pilgrimage, Holy bath etc etc. But the best path to Salvation is to discipline our mind to positive & optimistic way of life.
    Alok Mohan

  • June 23, 2012 at 7:56 am |

    Sophistication means a combination of worldly wisdom, self-confidence, and refinement in a person. We must try to become worldly-wise & not naïve by acquiring worldly knowledge.
    A Sophisticated person means that he is more refined in his approach. High quality education, proper grammar, and good etiquettes lead to development of sophisticated traits.
    While lacking natural simplicity, lacking ideas, tastes & manners are the traits of difficult people. If we desire to develop sophisticated traits in our children then we must try to become a Role Model as elder family members & give them opportunities to live and understand the cultural values of our Community. Our traditions, our Festivals & other ritual, we celebrate. We must appreciate them for their achievement.Difficult children are generally demanding & constantly fighting over non issues. The ability to control depends utterly on the ability of the elders of the family. When you have the ability face them and resolve their problems yourself, you feel wonderful. When you are able to reform your difficult child to a cultured child then you will really have a very satisfying experience

    Alok Mohan

  • June 23, 2012 at 7:15 am |

    When Ignorance is Bliss

    This is human nature to crave for knowledge and most of us have a burning desire to grow in all fields & become famous. We do desire for care & love also. The desire comes from our ego. Controlling ego & desires lead to spiritual progression & Complete Knowledge. We all know Knowledge is bliss. However Complete ignorance, at times is also bliss. Ignorance is bliss because if we don’t know something, it can’t hurt us. As long as we don’t know some future events, we are happy. However, we can not live in isolation For example, one of our close friends has been doing something that may hurt us. But we can remain happy with that person till the time we are ignorant of his actions. Once we know the truth, our happiness is gone. However this may be applied in specific situations. So when ignorance is bliss, this is stupidity to be wise. Once We loose our ignorance and bliss with innocence then we gain knowledge, compassion, and understanding.. knowledge is an essential part of our life to progress. little knowledge is also very important as little knowledge leads to more knowledge. Nobody can remain ignorant forever- whether he wants it or not he has to move from ignorance to little knowledge and gradually to greater knowledge. We must try seeking knowledge. Complete knowledge is real bliss. While Total ignorance is a state where we do not know or understand particular situation. Ignorance is our own perspective that gives us temporary pleasure. When we are ignorant we may make a mistake of blaming the external world for our ailments. We must always remember if our eyes are positive , we would like all the people in the world and if our tongue is positive all people in the world will like us~mohanalok

  • June 17, 2012 at 12:17 pm |

    Dasyus
    Adequate evidence of the religion of the Dasyus during the long period in which they have formed an important element in the society of Ancient India is not available. The meaning of the word Dass is “A Real Man” and this has been described in the Khotanise dialect. The word “Dassa” is contained in the name of a famous Vedic kings also. Several other protagonist people in the Rig Veda also have “Dassa” in their name.Dassa also means “Heaven’s Slave” as per Rig Veda. These include Kings Sudasa and Grtsamadas. Dasyu is a term that could also be applied to Vedic kings. In the battle of the Ten Kings in the Rig Veda, the king Sudas calls his enemies “Dasyu” which included Vedic peoples like the Anus, Druhyus, Turvashas, and even Purus.
    There is also mention of Dasa Balbutha Taruksa, who was a patron of a seer and who was distinguished by his generosity. There are several hymns in the Rigveda that refer to Dasa and Aryan enemies. As per Rigvedic verses, the Aryas and the Dasas stood united against their enemies. Dasyus were tree and serpent worshippers, and their principal deity was “Earth God”, to whom they offered human sacrifices till within a very recent period. They seem too to have practised all kinds of worship, as most ancient Indians used to do, in their early state of civilisation. Presumably most of the Dasyus in India, converted to Budhism though Budha himself was an Aryan.

  • June 17, 2012 at 9:11 am |

    Human Needs

    People tend to excel to meet their unmet needs. Human Needs go beyond just food, water, clothing and shelter. Physiological needs are obvious as they are the literal requirements for human survival. If these requirements are not met, the human body simply cannot continue to function. Physiological needs include Breathing, Nutrition, Air, water, food etc. After physical needs are satisfied, individual’s safety needs take precedence and dominate his behavior. These needs have to do with people’s yearning for a predictable orderly world. Safety and Security needs include Personal security, Financial security, Health and well-being, Safety net against accidents/illness etc. Safety Needs & Psychological needs are satisfied then this fact may add to their happiness. We at times get confused & consider Needs with Wants. We must know that Needs are life supporting, whereas wants are optional. Happiness is a subjective thing that differs from individual to individual. Safety security is a need for structure, predictability, stability, and freedom from fear and anxiety. While belongingness/Love is a need to be accepted by others and to have strong personal ties with one’s family, friends, and identity groups. Self-esteem is a need to be recognized by oneself and others as strong, competent, and capable person. Personal fulfillment is a the need to reach one’s potential in all areas of life. After physiological and safety needs are fulfilled, the third layer of human needs are social and involve feelings of belongingness This aspect involves emotionally based relationships in general, such as Friendship, Intimacy, Family etc. The need for self identity is in relation to the outside world. Identity becomes a problem when one’s identity is not recognized by society or when it is considered inferior or is threatened by others with different identifications. Cultural security is a need related to identity, the need for recognition of one’s language, traditions, religion, cultural values, ideas, and concepts. Freedom is a condition of having no physical, political, or civil restraints; having the capacity to exercise choice in all aspects of one’s life. Distributive Justice is a need for the fair allocation of resources among all members of a Family/a Community/a Nation. Human needs theorists argue that one of the primary causes of protracted or intractable conflict is people’s unyielding drive to meet their unmet needs on the individual, group, and societal level. What a man can be, he must be and this forms the basis of the perceived need for self-actualization. All humans have a need to be respected and to have self-esteem and self-respect. Also known as the belonging need, esteem presents the normal human desire to be accepted and valued by others. People need to engage themselves to gain recognition and have an activity or activities that give the person a sense of contribution, to feel accepted and self-valued, be it in a profession or hobby. Imbalances at any level can result in low self-esteem/inferiority complex.
    Following needs, therefore, if satisfied may make people happy.
    v Safety Needs: Job Security, Social Security, financial security, Harmony
    v Psychological needs: Friends, Social Circle, Colleagues, Group
    v Esteem Needs: Power, Recognition, Status
    v Self Actualisation Needs: Peace
    Alok Mohan

  • June 13, 2012 at 9:17 pm |

    Human Evolution

    GOD created us. We don’t know how God made our organs ie our livers, kidneys etc work. But we all know they do exist & work in perfect compatibility. We see every process of Nature in this Universe, compatible to other processes. This universe is in perfect balance exactly like Human Body.

    There is an assumption that we are related to Apes in a way where we are descendants and have evolved away from them. That way Lions and tigers are also closely related ie more than humans and monkeys. All these theories are full of holes. I feel Evolution is for the soul and not for the body

    Human being is not merely a body, but consciousness, i.e. living energy which is capable of self-awareness and that possesses mind and memory. Existing theories of Evolution are less scientific and more reliant upon beliefs.

    Creatures pass on their genetic information to their off springs. This is a natural mechanism by which the fittest members of a species survive to pass on their genetic information to their off springs through the reproductive process, while the weakest are eliminated.

    We all know the evolutionary formation of new biological species, usually by one species that divides into two or more species that are genetically unique. Speciation occurs when members of a species mutate to the point where they are no longer able to breed with other members of the same species. Through speciation, the genes of the new population become isolated from the previous group. Two species can have homologous anatomy even though they are not related in any way.

    Every religion is evolving a God out of human consciousness. Religion is some sort of a by product of evolution. Humans have evolved to a degree that they can realize they will die some day, and this is hard to swallow. Humans have been successful in following pattern. There is constant struggle to become perfect, to become divine & to reach God. We are entering a stage of ‘Self designed evolution’ where we will be able to select DNA and improve it in the ways we like. Earlier, evolution has been forming through ‘natural selection. Evolution was a natural way in which nature evolved or has chosen to evolve. Earlier Divine mother chose whichever way she liked. But now with the help of microevolution we can repair genetic defects. Our Consciousness is probably controlled by a large number of genes working in relation with one another. We may be able to change consciousness. We may be able to re-design our self with the help of micro evolution and may change our existing life form ie a life form which may be even be lighter then Air. Alok Mohan

  • May 26, 2012 at 1:31 pm |

    Presence of Mind

    Without presence of mind, intelligence is a waste.

    We must know the Answers of following prior to application of “ Presence of Mind”
    How ? Where ? When ?

    The reason for this is that Intelligence is a key factor to decide whether our actions are right or Wrong. Answers to these questions provide necessary information/intelligence. Any person with “presence of mind” can handle/tackle any problem/ sensitive situation. As we are aware “Presence of Mind” means how we react to particular situation. There fore we must understand the phenomenon of the Day to Day stresses in Life ie Time Stress, Situational Stress & Instantaneous Stress. Once we understand the stress component of any particular situation, We shall have better information to tackle the situation. However alertness is another important component, which is essential for tackling problem.

    As we all are aware our mind tend to travel away from where we are physically present. With this, we tend to lack awareness of the particular situation and we loose ‘presence of mind’. We must improve our awareness & visualisation skills.
    Hindu Spiritual Gurus recommend breath awareness as a possible grip to maintain the ‘presence of mind’ ! Breath Awareness definitely enhance our alertness skills.
    We must be aware of on going moments & our mind should be free from strong emotions or Guilt ie we should have calm mind. We must clear our mind of useless agendas and fears.
    Our conscious & sub conscious mind generally turns upon itself only & comes to vicious circle of some negative thoughts. The negative thoughts keep our mind always occupied.
    Even if we don’t have any problem or we have no obstacle or no situation, the thought process comes back to the source of our mind. The mind does what it has to do. It thinks non stop. Mind is always busy with wandering thoughts. We have to control all negative thoughts. Meditating or focusing on deep breathing helps us, settle the mind & improve our presence of mind..
    Following are few simple truths.
    1 Everything in this world undergo change & nothing is constant
    2 Every Cause has an Effect
    3 Our Life is both physical and non-physical ie Our Body, Our Mind Our Consciousness
    4 Our actions are being watched by Super Consciousness
    If we are aware of these truths then we can react to each stressful situation more effectively.
    Gautama Buddha: The master’s function is to help you remember who you are. You are not part of this mundane world. Your home is the home of the divine. You are lost in forgetfulness. You have forgotten the most important part that keeps you alive. ‘Breathe’. God is hidden inside you. You never look inside because everybody looks outside, you also go on looking outside.

    Alok Mohan

  • May 9, 2012 at 8:41 am |

    Happiness – A State of Mind or A state of Choice

    In our journey of life we may get success & Failures. If we regularly get success only, we shall not have any pleasure of getting success. Success and failures are must for a meaningful life. Life is a pack of different events like happiness, sorrow, challenges, revenge, fight, enjoyment, Luck etc. etc. We must take life as it comes considering it as a beautiful journey in which we come across many people and many events. Our role in life is that of an event manager. For example at times attachment with an event gives us happiness while other times detachment from a event may give us happiness. Definition of Life changes from person to person, from time to time as Our priorities are different in different stages of life. For example very small achievement of life may give us happiness when we are young. For some people life is money and money gives them happiness & for some achievement of inner happiness & contentment is the priority. However we must learn something from each event as these past events may turn out to be rich experience in our life.

    When we laugh the world laughs with us. But when we cry we cry alone. So this is our duty to be happy & we must know ‘sorrow is the absence of happiness just like cold, which is nothing but the absence of heat. Happiness is a feeling which makes us feel cheerful. Happiness is a choice, a state of mind & not a state of being. We may find happiness in small events of life. Money cannot buy us happiness. We can enjoy happiness & feel good about it , if we didn’t have some sadness so that we may compare and contrast it. There can not be any “happiness” without some sadness!

    People who can feel ‘happiness even if they are in Hell, to them this world is really a happy world. There may be some unfortunate events that happen to some people in life. Such events may cause irreparable sorrow for the rest of their life. These events may completely change life of a person. But in spite of these events people who maintain their cheer then we consider such type of happiness by Choice. If a person maintains cheer in spite of stressful situations then he is genius. Such people are considered above happiness & Sorrow.

    However for some people dealing with illness (mental or physical) can never be pleasant. However if a person chooses to maintain cheer then the happiness again may be a choice for him God has a plan for each and every one of us. God expects us to deal with the situation perfectly. God wants us to learn some sort of acceptance or contentment in whatever situation or circumstance that occurs in our lives. Daily life can be made happier. It is a matter of choice. It is our attitude that makes us feel happy or unhappy. It is true, we meet all kinds of situations during the day, and some of them may not be conductive to happiness. We may also choose to keep thinking about the unhappy events, and we can choose to refuse to think about them, and instead, relish the happy moments. All of us constantly go through various situations and circumstances, but we do not have to let these situations influence our reactions and feelings. If we let outer events influence our moods, we become their slaves. We lose our freedom. We let our happiness be determined by outer forces. On the other hand, we can free ourselves from outer influences. We can choose to be happy, and we can do a lot to add happiness to our lives.

    Happiness is a feeling of inner peace and satisfaction. It is usually experienced when there are no worries, fears or obsessing thoughts, and this usually happens, when we do something we love to do or when we get, win, gain or achieve something that we value. It seems to be the outcome of positive events, but it actually comes from the inside, triggered by outer events. One of the best ways to keep cheer, is by gaining inner peace through meditation. As the mind becomes more peaceful, it becomes easier to choose happiness.

    Some ways to find happiness in life:
    1. Stop comparing yourself with others
    2. Always be grateful to God for Happy Events of life.
    3. Find your inner voice
    4. Reconnect with your childhood dreams
    5. Help someone
    6. Spend more time with your loved ones
    8. Appreciate beauty of nature
    9. Pray or meditate
    10. Smile & maintain cheer
    13. Listen more than you speak
    14. Stop judging others
    15. Forgive yourself
    16. Forgive others
    17. Accept yourself as you are …..
    Alok Mohan

  • May 5, 2012 at 9:48 am |

    Life & Death

    Life after death cannot be proved scientifically. Science does not understand how the mind works. There is no mechanism for how the brain can generate thoughts let alone how consciousness could come about. Brain cells do not give us thoughts and consciousness. Having a soul may explain the phenomenon of Life after death. We are conscious of our existence. We are conscious of our mortality or immortality. We have very high level of consciousness. We all have some part of our brain, which makes us think & some part which stops us from thinking. Universal consciousness is the source of energy or power that allowed the universe’s creation and the life in it.
    We all know Energy or Matter can never be created or destroyed but can only be transformed. Consciousness is a form of energy, which cannot be destroyed but may be transformed.
    We know everything is made of energy. Everything, including life, is the result of this energy. Scientists such as Schneider and Sagan have successfully shown how the flow of energy creates life.

    We may have different bodies with similar brains and with similar number of nerves, but we have different character and personality. Our character cannot be easily seen or described. Nothing in this world dies & the portion of our life which does not exist can never die. Matter always exists in some form or other. Matter never dies .but it may change form.
    Purpose of our life is about helping energy flow, spread and balance. God has given us precious gift for assisting energy flow. I feel if we have a choice between Life & death then we must pick up life as by doing this we are helping Universal Conscious to ensure energy flow. Life is not meaningless. God has given us the life to use it in a right way.
    We must have experienced that someone whom we had never met & who is a totally stranger to us, at times appear very familiar & friendly. We keep remembering him or her. We always like that person’s presence. Communication with one stranger is always pleasant, while communication with another stranger is really difficult and irritating. The reason of this is that we carry the imprints of our past life. This is because of our earlier birth’s relationship. If we were very close to someone and that person has taken re-birth when we have taken birth again then as and when we meet him, we would be developing our liking towards him. Similarly vice verse. People who make more friends in their present life would definitely spread love all around them. If we show kindness to all we will get it back in next life. We are living in multidimensional life with multidimensional thoughts and multidimensional knowledge
    The idea of disappearing into a state of complete non-existence after death scares many people. There is nothing scary about this. Death is definitely not the worst thing in life as distance between Life & death is very fine line ie a breath. Sufferings and Pains only are worst in life and God has given us a Choice. God has given us a mind to attach or detach from worldly events. Sufferings are therefore caused by our ignorance & ignorance is caused by our ego. Ego is the free will & free will goes beyond our death as these sufferings only go to our next life also. Death gives momentarily pain to us & people around us. Our actions arising out of any evil, has far reaching ramifications on self as well as the whole world and we must avoid evil as we are accountable to Universal Conscious for our actions.
    Alok Mohan http://www.mqc.in

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