True love is always greater than our emotions, expectations & desires. It involves understanding the process of developing love with compassion as well as sacrifice. Judging someone worthy of love with your expectations , is not True love. Love driven by such desires & lust always brings us physical pleasures only.
True love is a very long process & can not be understood within few days or few months attachment. True Love is a responsibility towards one’s own soul mate. True love does not require returns from the beloved. There’s no ego but caring only. We all witness miseries & pleasures in day to day life. Every life experience is unique to every individual. We all have ups & downs during our entire span of life. . Our reactions to different life situations, decide our worth. We, the humans, react to emotions consequent to each and every sad/happy moment of our lives.
We may differentiate level of bringing up of any individual by analyzing his reactions to the life events, he has experienced or he is experiencing.
Looking on the most favorable side of our life events is the best possible state of our minds, which tunes us to optimistic way of living & make us feel happy and let us enjoy pleasures of life. Emotions influence our thoughts. Thoughts translate into our actions which decide whether we achieve or we may loose. If we control our minds under various stressful life situations, then we conquer our minds. Our thoughts & emotions are in our conscious mind. Our sub-conscious mind is connected with the universal mind & is not restricted by time or space. Every mind is different & has its own path of Functioning. However Pleasure moves between attachment & detachment state of our minds. Mind keeps on changing & taking us towards our destiny. However when we put efforts to tune our mind then we know the art to build our own Destiny in positive manner. Peace of mind & pleasure what we are looking for is already within us. We get real peace of mind & pleasure when we elevate our personality through conscious endeavor & enthusiasm.
We learn to love our self & help others. We feel calmness, When we are connected with God. We naturally enjoy admire & appreciate nature. When we help others, we get Worldly Pleasures. When we love ourselves we get Divine Pleasure. God resides deep within our psyche & help us to find resolutions to our all conflicts/Tune our mind. He brings us to optimistic path of life. God dwells in eternity Mass Space Energy. Time is His creation. God can see entire universe. Eternal life to His followers is a human made concept. Energy of God present in us can be felt. Being alive & conscious in this well Organised universe with perfect ecological balance definitely prove His existence. God directly provide real response when we need Him truly. He judges this if we have strong emotional bonding with Him in the form of our feelings ie the feelings of True Love towards our soul mates~mohanalok